TheCristalDomme

Sadistic Dominatrix & Purveyor Of Kink!

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About Me



Welcome to My erotic world of kink and debauchery!
My name is Mistress Cristal, but you may address Me as "Mistress." I am the Goddess of your dreams & the Dominatrix of your nightmares... perfection, sadism & addiction in one beautiful body, guaranteed to turn you weak at the knees and salivating from the mouth. Your addiction to Me starts here, as you begin your journey into the erotic & exciting world of online Female Domination.

I provide submissive males with the opportunity awaken the darkest, weakest and most kinky side of their personality; allowing them to explore their kinky desires and erotic fetishes in an online environment, in confidence and with 100% discretion. Sessions are conducted via telephone, webcam, email & instant messenger; perfect for those who are not yet ready or are unable to serve a real-time Dominatrix.

With 18 years experience, I am fully skilled in the art of erotic Domination and Fetish Exploration. You will find Me to be strict, but fair, knowledgeable and open-minded. Anybody who is willing to approach with an open mind will find that they can experience their desires beyond their wildest dreams!
A proud Manipulatrix; I enjoy the thrill of weaving My web of control around you, without you even realising it. Once you do realise you are fully under My command; you will not want to escape. You will be too enamoured and enthralled to even contemplate it. Instead; you will be happy & willing to obey and do My bidding, eager to do whatever it takes to make your Mistress happy & proud.

If you are ready to take the plunge and capitulate to My desires, then I invite you to read through My site to begin your journey into total surrender. But be warned; I will expect you to offer yourself to Me completely and endure for My entertainment, without quandary.

It is time for you to step out of your comfort zone and crawl into Mine..

https://www.thecristaldomme.com/






Contact

About My Shows



Skype Webcam sessions are available Monday, Thursday, Friday & Sunday 12.30pm until 4.30pm.

The fee is £1.60 per minute with a minimum booking length of 10 minutes. PAYPAL IS NOT ACCEPTED AS METHOD OF PAYMENT.

YOU MUST BE OVER 21 TO SERVE.

To book, simply visit the link below:

http://www.thecristaldomme.com/sessions.html



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My Rules

You MUST be over 21 to serve.
You MUST NOT assume you will be allowed to masturbate. Relief is allowed AFTER you have pleased Me.
You MUST address Me in the correct manner at all times.
You MUST NOT ask for "free tasters" or to verify via Skype.

I don't smoke cigarettes but I do vape.

Relief is NOT automatic. It will only be permitted IF you have pleased Me.

Yes you may. I have several wishlists at Amazon. Alternatively, you can send Amazon gift cards in pounds sterling to mistresscristal@mail.com

Of course! You should email to discuss which toys I want you to bring with you.

No. My rule is simple; no pay = no play!

Possibly. You should email Me first to discuss.

Mistress does not get naked. I do not play with Myself either. If you want this, I suggest you move along.

I am a Dominatrix; therefore My sessions are limited to Domination, Fetish and BDSM.

Nope. My services are online based only.

My Rates

 
With Sound
BDSM Cam Session
10 minutes
$ 20.20 $ 20.20
20 minutes
$ 40.40 $ 40.40
30 minutes
$ 60.60 $ 60.60
40 minutes
$ 80.80 $ 80.80

My Schedule

Times are GMT
Time
Monday
1 PM - 5 PM
Thursday
1 PM - 5 PM
Friday
1 PM - 5 PM
Sunday
1 PM - 5 PM

My Blog

WELCOME TO BUM SLAVERY

It's time prepare your pooper for constant easy access!

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COCK HUNGRY FUCK BOI

Come & join Me on a journey into the innermost part of your mind, where relaxation and release can be enjoyed. Your secret desires were always there. But now I will bring them to the surface. You know this is what you want. You know crave the pleasure of cock. You know you crave to pleasure cock. It is your destiny. It is your want, your need, your truth.

Don't be scared My dear. There is nothing in this realm that can hurt you. The only thing holding you back is you. Relinquish your control and hand it over to Me and I will take care of you. I will keep you safe and warm in a cocoon of relaxation, trance, cock & arousal....

FEMDOM HYPNOSIS

WARNING: THIS FILE WILL CAUSE YOU TO DEEPLY RELAX AND MAY INDUCE SLEEP. DO NOT LISTEN WHILST DRIVING OR OPERATING MACHINERY.

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AROUSED INTO SUBMISSION

To become aroused is to submit. To submit is to become aroused. When you submit; you submit to the deep desires you have within you. The desire to just surrender. To give up control and rid yourself of your responsibilities.

You don't need any specialist equipment in order to submit to your Mistress. All you need is an open mind, a deep-seated desire for sexual arousal and the freedom to become who you truly are. Mistress is about to give that to you. Your submission to Me will set you free and allow your mind to enjoy the pleasures of true sexual surrender.

FEMDOM HYPNOSIS

WARNING: THIS FILE WILL CAUSE YOU TO DEEPLY RELAX AND MAY INDUCE SLEEP. DO NOT LISTEN WHILST DRIVING OR OPERATING MACHINERY.

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ANAL SLAVE AFFIRMATIONS

You must remember the most important thing of being an anal slave. And that is that your ass exists for cock. It is a hole in which cock can be put into. Fingers, toys, tongues – your ass exists for use by any means necessary and by any gender.

These affirmations will help you to accept your purpose in life – to freely give your ass to ANYBODY who desires to use it – Master or Mistress, real cock or strap on. Your ass craves to be played with, to be filled, to be fucked. You are an anal slave and available for use by all. It is your destiny and these affirmations will help you to accept that.

FEMDOM HYPNOSIS

WARNING: THIS FILE WILL CAUSE YOU TO DEEPLY RELAX AND MAY INDUCE SLEEP. DO NOT LISTEN WHILST DRIVING OR OPERATING MACHINERY.

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DOMINATION HOTLINE

Want to chat to your Mistress? Need to hear My sexy voice purring commands into your ear? I'm also available via Call Connect! This a Pay As You Go phone chat service, which puts you totally in charge of your spend.

In a Direct Call session, we can chat about whatever you like. Perhaps you need some kink advice. Maybe you have a naughty confession you'd like to make to your Mistress. Or you just want somebody to talk to about your kinky side. Either way, I will enjoy hearing in your voice, how badly you crave Me, how desperately you need to submit to My will and dedicate your entire being to your Queen of Darkness.

I'll make you beg to stroke yourself as I tease & torment you with your desires, telling you all the ways I will ensure you obey your Mistress, all the debauched things I'm going to do to you and all the ways you're going to submit. This is a Femdom Hotline in every sense of the word, because you will so hot and addicted, you will want to call Me over and over again. Once you've become obsessed with hearing My delicious voice, there is no cure for that obsession. You will be Mine, to do with as I desire....

Calls are priced at £0.55 per min, plus network charge. Strictly over 18's only! Simply click the link to call!

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How not to suck at Financial Domination

If you're new to Financial Domination; you've probably been asking yourself this question. Maybe you've seen other findoms on social media posting details of the tributes they've received and you're wondering "why isn't it like that for me?"

Well it's simple. Findom isn't an exact science. Neither is it a get-rich-quick-scheme. Findom is very much a psychological fetish, which takes time and effort to learn and a lot longer to find those who have a genuine interest in exploring this fetish with you.

Let's cut through some of the myths surrounding this fetish and we start by you totally forgetting what you've seen on social media.

Financial Domination is NOT about sitting on twitter, calling subs piggies and demanding they pay you. If that is your approach to the fetish; then you're not going to last very long at all.

The tweets you see are not always genuine tributes - rather fees paid for a session, but masked as a tribute to look good.

Neither is it taking pictures of the intimate areas of your body and expecting subs to shower you with tributes. Why would they pay for something they've just seen for free? Treat them mean, keep them keen!

No, Financial Domination is much more complex than that but, if done correctly; can be both fun & rewarding.

The whole point of Financial Domination is about psychological control. If you are doing it right; you won't need to demand tributes. They will be given freely. Why? Because you have managed to have a sub become so captivated by you; they WANT to give simply to show their admiration. They are fueled by their desire to make you happy; and give without any form of encouragement.

So how do you get to this stage? Well, here's where the hard work starts.

RELAX - IT'S NOT A RACE!

Let's imagine you meet somebody on a night out. You think he's cute and he's giving you all the signals that he likes you. But when you start chatting, would you immediately expect him to move you into his apartment, marry you and have children with you? Of course not! You'd want to get to know him and have him get to know you; to find out if you are compatible.

You might go on a few dates to see where it leads. If it leads in a good direction; you'd start a relationship with them, still getting to know each other along the way - the good and the bad, before eventually, things get more serious and you start talking about moving in together and eventually marriage.

This doesn't happen overnight. A relationship takes a long time to build. It takes communication, trust, honesty and compromise.

The same can be said for Financial Domination.

It is completely unrealistic to expect a stranger you've never spoken to before, to part with his money because you say so. He wants to get to know you and see if the both of you click. You both need to establish a rapport and see if indeed, he is right for you! And yes; he needs to be able to trust you. There's a lot of scam artists out there and he may well have had his fingers burned. It's your job to prove you aren't going to do that to him.

That's not to say your attention should be free. There is absolutely nothing wrong with expecting payment for online chat, webcam sessions, phone chat sessions etc. But understand that these are fees - he's paying for a service. He's NOT sending tributes.

Remember; tributes are gifts given freely, without expecting anything in return.
Fees are payment for services.

But; if he's not even prepared to pay for a session with you, no matter what type it is; walk away - he's not entitled to any more of your time for free.

However; if you find yourself having regular sessions with him, and even chatting casually on social media outside of sessions, that's where the building blocks of the relationship are laid. You're finding yourself casually chatting on social media (non sexual, i.e not what you would discuss in session), he's retweeting your tweets without being asked to do so, and the relationship is flourishing. He's doing things to please you - like posting humiliating pictures of himself and tagging you in them. He's doing all these things for one reason and one reason only - for your approval.

Once that happens, and happens with regularity, the chances are you'll find the odd tribute heading your way - and you won't even need to ask him. He'll do it willingly and freely, simply because he wants to please you.

All you've done is communicate, tease him & created a professional relationship with him - by being yourself. And now, he's hooked.

So how long does it take to form this type of relationship with a potential financial sub? My answer to that is; how long is a piece of string? It could take weeks, months even years. But it WON'T happen straightaway. It will take as long as it takes and if you attempt to rush it, or demand tribute before you have gained your submissive's trust; you won't see them for dust. Remember what we said about a marriage proposal before the first date? Yup; it's gonna scare anybody off.

To give you an insight as to how long it can take; I was practising Financial Domination for over a year before I found My first financial sub. I've been in the scene for 10 years - and in that time I've had 4 genuine financial subs and a whole lot of potential timewasters. I say "potential" because when it comes to sessions; they get a big fat nothing until and unless they pay the fees up front. If they don't pay, I forget they exist and never engage with them again.

I'VE HAD SO MANY TIMEWASTERS CONTACT ME! WHAT AM I DOING WRONG?

And that leads Me on to My next point - how to avoid the timewasters and even more importantly; how to ensure you're not a target for timewasters!

Those who post regular "pay for My dinner," or "I need to pay my rent, pay me now!" scream desperate. And timewasters know this. They approach; promise to pay ridiculous amounts of money then vanish. They do this because they get off on the idea of you getting into a state because you've been promised cash they have no intention of sending. Indeed; timewasting has become a fetish in itself. I shall point out that a Domme who can't afford to pay for her own dinner or pay her own rent, is not in control of her life. This isn't attractive to a potential sub.

By all means; tweet a tribute link and invite subs to contribute. But don't demand it. You will come off as desperate and timewasters love this.

Another tactic is for them to send messages and tweets to multiple Dommes. Check their timeline - is it full of "hey miss, follow me"? If so; avoid. They're looking for free attention without the paperwork.

And of course there's the boys who want to pay via Paypal.

I cannot stress this enough. NEVER EVER EVER OFFER PAYPAL AS A PAYMENT METHOD - EVER!!! Be it for tributes or fees; it's simply not worth it.

Paypal clearly state in their terms and conditions that they do not allow transactions for adult-related services. Financial Domination is still sex work - therefore it is adult-related. If Paypal find out, and they will, they will close your account, take any money you have in your account and you can NEVER have an account with them again. There are plenty of adult-friendly means of receiving payments and tributes from subs - Paypal isn't one of them.

And of course; payments can be reversed on Paypal. Imagine the scenario - sub sends payment for a skype session - you do the session, then log in to your Paypal account to find he's clawed the money back. The upshot is, you've given him a free session. And THAT'S why the timewasters love Paypal.

This can and does also happen with Amazon Gift Certificates - so always redeem first. I shall point out that Amazon isn't always sex-worker friendly, so exercise caution when using them. While we are on the subject of Amazon and wishlists - NEVER accept a gift as payment for a session, particularly if from Amazon - gifts can be and are cancelled by timewasters.

Finally, on the subject of timewasters, trust your gut. Remember; if something sounds too good to be true, it probably is. This means that if you get sub who claims he wants to give you £1000 or have you rinse his credit card; he's on the con. Genuine subs don't offer - they give. Timewasters dangle tributes like a carrot on a string. Don't bite - they're not going to part with that cash.

BE GRATEFUL!!!

So; you've established a strong relationship with your sub and the tributes & gifts are coming in. Now is the time to show YOUR appreciation! ALWAYS thank them - yes, I know it goes against the grain, but they are human beings just like you. They've parted with their hard-earned cash. The least you can do is be grateful! Post a picture of their gift and thank them. Shoot a clip of you wearing any clothing gifts, and mention them - make it a FREE clip too! If it's a gift card - send a simple thank you note. BE NICE! If they know they've made you happy; they will tribute again. Treat them like dirt, and they won't - unless they like being treated like that of course - which they will be keen to tell you. A simple thank you message, tweet, or clip costs you nothing. But it will mean the world to them.

DON'T BE GREEDY.

Like you; a sub has financial responsibilities outside of the scene. He's NOT going to risk his home and go bankrupt, because you expect it. And if he's prepared to, then you shouldn't be prepared to allow that. Debt is not exciting and neither is being homeless.

Remember; you are a luxury in his life. He pays you after he's paid the bills he needs to pay - the essentials he cannot live without. Telling him not to pay his mortgage because he needs to pay you is not only irresponsible, it's also unrealistic. How's he going to keep paying you if he doesn't have an internet connection, mobile phone, debit card or even a home? Think about it - he can't give you anything if he has nothing.

While it is unreasonable to expect your sub to sacrifice his essentials; it is NOT unreasonable to expect him to sacrifice luxuries like a trip to the cinema, those new trainers he's had his eye on, or a night out with the lads. Wants and needs. He NEEDS to pay his bills, but he WANTS to pay you AND enjoy a night out. One of those wants has to go. If he's devoted enough; he'll sacrifice the night out. If he doesn't then don't worry. You're just not quite there in your relationship, yet.

Be responsible. If you get the slightest suspicion he's heading for financial disaster, that's when it stops being fun. And when the fun stops; STOP! He will have the greatest respect for you, if you refuse his tribute because you know he really cannot afford it. If it's a blip; he'll likely up his tribute when he can afford to. If it's more serious, he will still be loyal in other ways. Ex-financial subs can be of use in graphic design, promotion, clip editing....especially if you have a lot of mutual trust between you.

Remember; home-wrecking might be fun in a fantasy sense. But in reality; people in debt are at a greater risk of suicide - do you really want that on your conscience? YOU are responsible for your sub - 100%. If he's in "sub space" he may not be able to make a responsible decision about his desire to give, at the risk of his financial situation. That means the onus is on YOU to spot the signs.

ALTERNATIVES TO PAYPAL

As I've already mentioned; there are many ways to receive payments and tributes, without risking your Paypal account. Keep that account strictly for your vanilla life.

NiteFlirt is a good place to receive payments - yes, they take commission, but your money is safe and can be paid by bank transfer or cheque.

Delivery Code is a good one too. You can receive payment in the form of gift voucher. You then have the option of using it to purchase items from your wishlist, or having it converted to cash and paid into your bank. The added bonus of Delivery Code is that they do not allow cancellations - so no danger of gifts or vouchers being cancelled.

WebstreamUK is a very adult-friendly payment processor - you can receive payments in the form of donations, as well as offer phone chat, webcam session, clips and pictures, AND get paid by bank transfer. There are no fees to set up. All you need is a good established website.

https://iwantclips.com/ is another adult-friendly site, where you can sell clips, pictures and receive tributes. Payment is monthly or bi-monthly (depending up on amount earned) by ECheck or Wire transfer.

So in conclusion; if you're smart, patient and prepared to put a lot of time in researching Financial Domination AND the BDSM scene, you'll do well. If you're expecting to be inundated with tributes from day one; My advice is to get your head out of the clouds and come back down to earth. I've seen one girl give up her vanilla job the moment she became a Findom - and then wondered why her bank account was in the red. Don't expect this fetish to be your sole source of income - unless you've got it down to fine art, after many years of experience. Good things come to those who wait!


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LOVENSE CONTROL

Imagine if Mistress could physically tease you without being anywhere near you.

We can make it happen, boys!

If you have any of the Lovense toys, then the sky's the limit when it comes to driving you absolutely wild with vibration. Pop in the toy, log on to the app and Mistress will have Her fun.

I can tease you any time, any place, any way. Perhaps I'll give you a few short bursts to remind you of who is control of your pleasure. Maybe I'll give you extremely intense vibration while you try to stop those tell-tale facial expressions. I can even tease you during a webcam session, bring you close to the edge of explosion and watch you beg and plead for Me to finish you off.

Oh what fun it will be! Just think; you could be at work, minding your own business when suddenly, the Lovense starts to vibrate - and you'll have no control over how intense and for how long it will vibrate for. At the same time; if I think you're enjoying yourself too much, I can stop the vibration and make you go without.

It doesn't matter where you are. You might be walking around the grocery store and I'll suddenly have the desire to mess with you. The fact that you'll have to keep the moans to a minimum is an added bonus. Sure, you could pass it off as your phone vibrating, but how on earth will you explain the strange way in which you are walking?

The only time Mistress will not play with your pleasure is when you're driving or you're in a situation which may endanger your life or affect your relationship with your significant other.

The rest of the time, your ass is MINE!

So if you're ready to hand over total control of your pleasure to Me, then get in touch. I'm sure I'll have hours of fun at your expense...


LOVENSE CONTROL RATES.

Control during a webcam session - £1.20 per min.

Control outside of a webcam session £5 per hour.

All day control (during My available hours) - £30.00

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Why BDSM Ethics are NOT optional

Whether you're an Online Domme or offer real-time sessions; there is something ALL Dommes have in common - Kink & BDSM Ethics.

As I have repeatedly said before; when you are taking control of a submissive; you are personally responsible for their safety and well-being. You are also completely accountable when things go wrong, especially if it is as a result of your own ignorance or lack of moral integrity.

The most important part of being a Domme is understanding that in BDSM, there absolutely MUST be mutual consent. When engaging in power exchange activities, the line between abuse and play is a very fine one, and it is YOUR job to ensure you stay on the right side of it. For those who are new into the scene, you may find your judgement clouded on this subject, which is why it is important to ensure you have received expressed consent rather than implied consent - and that you abide by it in all BDSM situations

While the use of safe-words is indeed a good idea; it is not enough to use the word "no", as a safe-word. A good safe-word is one which both parties feel comfortable in using, but is not related to a play session. For example; "whip" is not a good example of a safe-word. "Giraffe" is better.

I personally use the traffic light system. Green for yes, keep going, Amber for go gently and slowly and red for stop! And once red comes up - the play stops - instantly. And in the case where the play stops; aftercare and other support is delivered for the well-being of the sub.

But what other things should a Domme ensure She employs in BDSM play?

PROPER KNOWLEDGE.
It is vitally important that you are aware of the risks of any BDSM activity. For example; ensuring that electrics do not go anywhere near the heart, the correct place to use the cane - get it wrong and cane across the back and you risk ruptured kidneys.

You should also understand that some activities have more risks that others. Use of poppers on somebody with heart, lung or circulatory problems can cause a serious risk to their health or even death. Sounding, if not done correctly, can risk a torn urethra and I don't think I need to spell out the dangers of incorrect use of breathe play.

It is always a good idea to try out kinks on yourself before applying them to a sub - so both you and he know what to expect.

ENSURE A SAFE PLAY ENVIRONMENT.
Your play space should be free of any hazards such as open flames, fumes or insecure equipment. It is also essential that you are aware of your sub's physical and emotional limitations - don't engage in play which is likely to trigger a severely negative emotional response. You're not just responsible for their physical well-being. You're also responsible for their mental well-being. Take care of the latter, especially in your after-care and throughout their servitude.

RESPECT THEIR PRIVACY.
Rule number one in being a successful Domme. If they want to keep their vanilla life and alternative life separate then respect it. NEVER out their alternative life without their explicit permission. NEVER involve other members of their family without the explicit permission. NEVER involve family members under 18 - EVER.

HONESTY.
Honesty is a very important factor in a D/s relationship. They should be honest with you. You must always be honest with them. Ensure there is a mutual awareness of hard limits. Never lie about the risks of BDSM activity, and don't agree to commitments you cannot honour.

DON'T INJURE THEM.
There is a world of difference between inflicting pain and causing injury. Always be conscious of your sub's desires & limits and stay within those lines. If you inflict unintentional or unwanted pain on a sub; you are not a Domme. You're a bully.

DON'T BE THEIR EMOTIONAL CRUTCH.
While it is important to provide emotional support & aftercare; DON'T play the amateur psychiatrist. But do be prepared to advise them to seek professional help for any issues you are not qualified to deal with.

SEE THE EXPERIENCE THROUGH TO COMPLETION.
Every session should begin with what I like to call "pre-play care" - assessing your sub's needs, desires & limits, health, life and emotional issues and informing of any risks. Next is the actual BDSM play itself and finally is the after-care. After-care is not optional. You have a responsibility to ensure you give the care & support they need to come out of the play head space they went into during the physical session. This also includes physical care like attending to bruises, giving refreshment and even cuddles.

LOOK AFTER YOURSELF.
If your own physical, mental and emotional health is not in a good place; then it risks showing itself in sessions. Take care of your own health and understand that you are human too. It is perfectly acceptable to take a break, recharge and bring yourself back to stability. NEVER play when you are angry or depressed.

Remember; a good Domme is an ethical one!

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Cuckoldry - Separating Facts From Fiction..


CUCKOLDING - SEPARATING FACTS FROM FICTION.
12/22/2018 0 Comments

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"Mistress, I'd like to explore cuckolding fetish with you, where I watch my wife with another man..."

I can't tell you how many times a wannabe cuckold has said this to Me and each and every time, they get the same response:

"That's not cuckolding. That's you being a voyeur."

Sadly; there are many myths surrounding cuckolding, mostly created by those who don't have a clear understanding of the fetish. I'm about to clear up those myths, so you can gain a better understanding of what it is exactly, and what it means to you. You WILL be surprised.

First and most importantly; cuckoldry is NOT about your physical sexual pleasure. It is a psychological fetish, which involves arousal from the mental anguish of your partner cheating on you with somebody better - and you consenting to her cheating and even complying with it. It's not swinging and it's not having a threesome.

CUCKOLDRY IS A FEMALE LED RELATIONSHIP.

Apart from the pre-agreed parameters & considerations, cuckolds don't get a say when it comes sexual play. She will likely choose an Alpha who is more dominant or better endowed, to ensure your full humiliation and psychological torture. YOU DON'T GET TO CHOOSE if she doesn't want you to.

That's not to say you won't be involved to some degree, but certainly not in a sexual sense.

She may, if she feels you deserve it, permit you to help her dress for a date with her Alpha, or even do things like paint her toenails, run her a bath, pay for a make over, new clothes, a trip to the hair dressers etc. But in terms of your involvement in the date itself, that's where it ends. You have no place on the date itself unless she wants you to.

YOU DON'T GET TO WATCH.

Cuckolds will almost never get to watch during play. If she does want you to watch; it will be on her terms, i.e. with you in chastity and tied to a chair in the corner of the room or via live video stream. If she doesn't want you to watch, but still wants to humiliate you, she may lock you into chastity and allow you to HEAR what they're getting up to - be it via a phone call, or even playing in the next room. But you will never, ever get to see what is happening unless she agrees. It could also be the case where you have both decided that you are not to watch, in case jealousy kicks in. Cuckoldry is NOT about your physical pleasure, remember. It's about hers. So while she's having the time of her life; you're aroused but staying frustrated.

YOU DON'T GET TO JOIN IN WITH HER.

The whole point of cuckoldry is that you are complicit in your partner's infidelity. You enjoy the fact that she's enjoying herself with an Alpha male and you get off on how it makes you feel to know she's enjoying herself with somebody better than you. But you don't get to enjoy her. If you join in, you're not engaging in cuckoldry - you're simply having a threesome. You're completely left out of the equation, because you love the fact that your partner climaxes with a man who is your Superior. IF there is a bi-sexual element to play; you MAY be permitted to pleasure him before and after. But never her.

YOU ARE NOT BEING REPLACED.

Cuckoldry requires trust, communication, honesty and consent. Both parties set out boundaries away from the actual play scene - rather like one would set the scene before any BDSM play. At the end of play, you go back to being a loving couple until the next time she decides she wants to play.

As a cuckold; you enjoy the fact that your partner is satisfying her sexual urges by having sex with another man. But that doesn't mean you stop being her partner. A relationship cannot ever be replaced by cuckolding. Why? Because without a relationship, there is no cuckolding.

YOU ARE THERE FOR THE ENTERTAINMENT.

In a cuckold relationship; your arousal is further heightened when your partner TELLS YOU how much she enjoyed herself with her Alpha. She might talk about how many times he made her climax, why he was so much better, whether or not he was well endowed and particularly if he was bigger than you. She may even encourage her Alpha to take part in this part of the fetish, by having him tell you how much he loves sleeping with your partner. They will taunt you and tease you about what they physically gain out of the arrangement, and what you don't gain. THAT is where the psychological arousal comes it - masturbation for the brain!

BUT I GET TO "CLEAN UP" RIGHT?

Nope! Another common misconception of cuckoldry! You DON'T get to clean up where an Alpha has been - because that's you again, taking care of your own pleasure. It's about hers and her Alpha's. Having you "clean" her afterwards means you're just going down on her - satisfying a need for your own physical pleasure. Don't forget the golden rule - it's NOT about your body's physical needs.

BUT JERKING OFF...WHEN DOES THAT HAPPEN?

Many think they will get to jerk off while their partner is enjoying themselves; which again completely distorts what cuckolding really is. In reality; you will only get to jerk off when and if she wants you to. But don't assume that you'll be able to have that release you crave.

She may decide to put you in chastity on the evening of her "date", so you can be kept aroused and frustrated throughout. She may even keep you frustrated while she tells you all about the experience; how it felt, what happened, how big he was, how long it lasted. Or, she may allow you to jerk off during all of this, by denying you your climax. She may even choose to ruin your orgasm. But whatever she chooses, you won't cum unless and until she wants you to. You won't receive any physical pleasure unless and until she wants you to. She is in control of her own pleasure and yours!

These are just the general rules, as you both need to communicate with what works for you., but for those who wish to engage in a cuckold fetish session with Me; ensure you have read ALL of this. If I think you're talking about it from a selfish, narcissistic point of view of "I want to see my girlfriend with another man", I guarantee I'll lose interest in you.

However, if you can demonstrate that you know what the fetish involves, then yes, we can explore this. But remember - I'm the one in control throughout - and you'll receive your physical pleasure when and if I want you to....

http://www.thecristaldomme.com/

MASTURBATION MONDAY!

MASTURBATION MONDAY! Skype bookings taken from 2pm. 10 for 10 mins. Email to book: mistresscristal@mail.com



*JERK OFF INSTRUCTION*

*CUM EATING INSTRUCTION*

*CUM IN MOUTH INSTRUCTION*

*PROSTATE MILKING*

*EDGING*

*POST ORGASM TORTURE*

*HEADS OR TAILS*

*THE CUM CHALLENGE*

*ICE COCK CHALLENGE*

*POPPERS INSTRUCTION*

*FOOT FETISH JERK OFF*

WWW.THECRISTALDOMME.COM

SUNDAY 11 JANUARY - SUNDAY CONFESSIONAL.


Of course you boys know what today is, don't you? You don't? Well let Me enlighten you..,.

Today is the first Sunday Confessional of 2015 - and that means it's going to be a very harsh, strict and sadistic one! You didn't really think I was going to go easy on you, did you? Of course not! I don't go easy - "mercy" isn't in My vocabulary!

I expect ALL naughty, disgusting, filthy, perverted boys to report to Confession at 2pm prompt! You will be naked and kneeling. Your hands will be AWAY from that little flap of skin you dare to call a "cock". Your head will be bowed low and you will confess every single dirty detail of your sins. You will be thorough in your confession and you will be honest. Don't think you can leave out any information - because Mistress WILL find out all.

Once you have squirmed in shame at My highly humiliating questions about your sins; you will then BEG to be absolved of them. Now don't think for one minute that this means you will simply be forgiven. Oh no - you have to earn that forgiveness. And how do you earn it? You earn it by suffering.

Yes, that's right; you will suffer in any way I decide. I will torture you, I will taunt you, I will deny you, I will humiliate you and I will crawl inside your head and ruin you. But suffer you must for you are here to learn that such behaviour is not acceptable to a lowly slave such as yourself. You will learn that satisfying your own selfish needs is not on the agenda. Your needs simply don't feature. You will be moulded into the meek, subservient, respectful subject you should be. You will learn that pleasing Mistress is the only life you will live. Nothing else is important.

Don't delay - you are only prolonging the inevitable. Submitting and confessing is an itch to be scratched - and I have the scratch to that itch....

Book your place for Sunday Confessional NOW - don't think about it. Just do it - you are incapable of rational thought in any case....I'm the thinker - you're the do-er - doing whatever I think you need to become a loyal, well-behaved, submissive subject.

mistresscristal@mail.com

*Sunday Confessional is conducted via Skype. Bookings at 1 per minute. Minimum booking length 10 minutes. Tribute ALWAYS required and via Amazon UK E Gift Card ONLY. Strictly for those aged 21 or over.

Last day to serve!


Today is your very last day to serve Me before I break for the Christmas period. Can you really go that long without Me?

Can you really wait until after Christmas to scratch that kinky itch? I didn't think so.

Skype bookings will be available today from 1.30pm until 5pm (last booking taken at 4.30pm) and are priced at 1 per minute. Because it's My last day; bookings will fill up quickly so you shouldn't delay in sending your booking request through.

To request a Skype session, you should email Me at:

mistresscristal@mail.com

Tinsel and cock decorations are optional, but welcomed....

Hurry! Hurry! Hurry!

We are fast heading towards the last few days to serve Me before Christmas. You should be aware that I have decided that MONDAY will be My last day, before I break for the Christmas period. After Monday, I will not be available until 27 December - can you really go that long without Me?

Today; I will be taking webcam bookings for Skype, from 1pm until 5.30pm. Bookings are priced at 1 per minute with a minimum booking length of 10 minutes Tribute be ONLY be made via Amazon UK E Gift Card.

You should also be aware that today is Sadistic Saturday - one of My favourite days of the week. Today, I will be ensuring you suffer for My entertainment. You will suffer through pain, humiliation, denial....in fact any way I choose to make you suffer. But suffer you must!

So don't delay; weekend bookings usually fill up very quickly! Email Me NOW to request a session:

mistresscristal@mail.com

SATURDAY 25 OCTOBER - SADISTIC SATURDAY.

Sadistic Saturday today boys! Yes, today is the day when My sadistic side comes out to play. And I know just how much you pathetic little weaklings LOVE My sadistic side - especially when I'm inflicting it on you!

On the menu today:

BALL BUSTING

COCK & BALL TORTURE

NIPPLE TORTURE

ANAL ABUSE

HUMILIATION/DEGRADATION

SLUT TRAINING

TEASE & DENIAL

EDGING

FINANCIAL ABUSE/RINSING

TRAMPLING FANTASY

EXTREME HEELS.

RUINED MASTURBATION GAMES.

Cam bookings will be taken from 2.30pm UK time. Sessions are conducted via Skype. Sessions are priced at 1.30 per minute and this price includes cam to cam and audio. Tribute is to be made via AmazonUK E Gift Card unless otherwise instructed.

If you wish to book a webcam session for this afternoon; you should email Me RESPECTFULLY at the address below:

mistresscristal@mail.com

Email Slaves Required.

I currently have two vacancies for slaves to serve Me via Email on a WEEKLY basis. You will be expected to complete weekly Email Tasks and provide a full written report with photographs/video of you carrying out each task. Subject to your agreement such photographs/video may be posted on My website or tumblr blog as part of your public humiliation.

If you have a GENUINE wish to serve and are aged 21 or ever, you may email your application to:

mistresscristal@mail.com

For more information about Email Training, you may visit the link below:

http://www.thecristaldomme.co.uk/p/email-assignments.html

FRIDAY 24 OCTOBER - FETISH FRIDAY.

Today is not just Friday. It's FETISH FRIDAY!

That means that today's webcam bookings will be dedicated to all things Fetish!

On the menu today:

Foot Fetish

Nail Fetish

Stockings Fetish

Heels Fetish

Pain Fetish

Financial Fetish

PVC Fetish

Panty Fetish (bring your own panties!)

Nylon Fetish (bring your own tights/stockings)

Anal Fetish (toys and lube required)

Humiliation Fetish (bring lingerie, lipstick and marker pen)

General Fetish (your chance to tell Me all about your fetish and explore it!)

Webcam bookings will be taken from 2.30pm and will be conducted via Skype. Bookings are priced at 1.30 per minute. Price includes cam to cam and audio. Tribute is via AmazonUK E Gift Card - Paypal accepted only at My discretion.

To book, simply email Me RESPECTFULLY via the address below:

mistresscristal@mail.com

FRIDAY 10 OCTOBER - FETISH FRIDAY!

Yes boys today is FETISH FRIDAY! That means today's cam bookings will be all things fetish!

On the menu today:

SISSY FETISH

DILDO FETISH

FOOT FETISH

NAIL FETISH

HEEL FETISH

CUM EATING FETISH

FINANCIAL FETISH

HUMILIATION FETISH

Bookings for Skype shows will be taken from 2.30pm UK time.

Price for shows is 1.30 per minute. This price includes two way cam and audio. Tribute via Amazon UK E gift Card (paypal ONLY at My discretion).

To book, email Me via the address below:

mistresscristal@mail.com

WEDNESDAY 8 OCTOBER - WANKER'S WEDNESDAY!

Yes boys, today is "Wanker's Wednesday" - the second of only two days a week where you are ALLOWED to jerk off - under My watchful eye of course.

On the menu today will be:

Jerk Off Instruction/Guided Masturbation.

Heads or Tails

The Cum Challenge

Edge Play - how long can you last?

Cum Eating Instruction.

Cam bookings will be taken from 2.30pm UK time. Price for cam bookings is 1.30 per minute which includes cam to cam and audio. Minimum booking length is 10 minutes.

If you wish to book, you should email Me RESPECTFULLY; at the email address below:

mistresscristal@mail.com

AVAILABILITY WEEK COMMENCING 6 OCTOBER.

I will be available for webcam bookings this week as follows:

MONDAY 6 OCTOBER - AVAILABLE 2.30PM UNTIL 5PM.

TUESDAY 7 OCTOBER - NOT AVAILABLE.

WEDNESDAY 8 OCTOBER - AVAILABLE 2.30PM UNTIL 5PM.

THURSDAY 9 OCTOBER - NOT AVAILABLE.

FRIDAY 10 OCTOBER - AVAILABLE 2.30PM UNTIL 5PM.

SATURDAY 11 OCTOBER - AVAILABLE 2.30PM UNTIL 5PM.

SUNDAY 12 OCTOBER - AVAILABLE 2.30PM UNTIL 5PM.

If you wish to book a session during these times, you should email Me respectfully at the address below:

mistresscristal@mail.com

AVAILABILITY WEEK COMMENCING 29 SEPTEMBER.

I will be available for webcam sessions this week as follows:

MONDAY 29 SEPTEMBER - 2.30PM UNTIL 5PM.

TUESDAY 30 SEPTEMBER - NOT AVAILABLE

WEDNESDAY 1 OCTOBER - 2.30PM UNTIL 5PM.

THURSDAY 2 OCTOBER - NOT AVAILABLE.

FRIDAY 3 OCTOBER - 2.30PM UNTIL 5PM.

SATURDAY 4 OCTOBER - NOT AVAILABLE

SUNDAY 5 OCTOBER - 2.30PM UNTIL 5PM.

If you wish to book a webcam session during these times, you may email Me at the address below:

mistresscristal@mail.com

AVAILABILITY WEEK COMMENCING 22 SEPTEMBER.

I will be available for cam bookings this week as follows:

MONDAY 22 SEPTEMBER - 2.30PM UNTIL 5PM.

TUESDAY 23 SEPTEMBER - NOT AVAILABLE.

WEDNESDAY 24 SEPTEMBER - 2.30PM UNTIL 5PM.

THURSDAY 25 SEPTEMBER - NOT AVAILABLE.

FRIDAY 26 SEPTEMBER - 2.30PM UNTIL 5PM.

SATURDAY 27 SEPTEMBER - 2.30PM UNTIL 5PM.

SUNDAY 28 SEPTEMBER - 2PM UNTIL 4.30PM.

To book a cam session with Me, you may email Me directly at mistresscristal@mail.com

A Bittersweet Birthday Appeal.

Tomorrow would have been My Grandfather's 85th Birthday, and since his passing, I have been working hard to raise funds for the Hospice who looked after him during his last few days.

It would mean so much to both of us, if you could help with this very special cause, and you can do this by donating via text.

Simply text:

ROTH 61 5 TO 70070 to donate just 5.

Thank you to everybody who finds it in their hearts to donate.

AVAILABILITY WEEK COMMENCING 21 JULY.

AVAILABILITY WEEK COMMENCING 21 JULY.
I will be available for Skype Bookings this week as follows:

MONDAY 21 JULY - 2.30PM UNTIL 5PM.

TUESDAY 22 JULY - NOT AVAILABLE.

WEDNESDAY 23 JULY - AVAILABLE 2.30PM UNTIL 5.30PM.

THURSDAY 24 JULY - NOT AVAILABLE

FRIDAY 25TH JULY - AVAILABLE 2.30PM UNTIL 5.30PM.

SATURDAY 26TH JULY - AVAILABLE 2.30PM UNTIL 5.30PM.

SUNDAY 27TH JULY - AVAILABLE 2.30PM UNTIL 5.30PM.

If you wish to book a cam session during these times, you should click on the link below:

http://www.thecristaldomme.co.uk/p/online-sessions-prices.html

SUNDAY CONFESSIONAL - SUNDAY 20TH JULY

Sunday Confessional today boys! So heres whats on the menu today!

2.30PM UNTIL 3.30PM - PUNISHED FOR WANKING - COCK AND BALL TORTURE, RUINED ORGASMS, TEASE & DENIAL.

3.30PM UNTIL 4.30PM - PERVERTS PUNISHMENT - IF YOURE GOING TO BE A PERV, TAKE IT LIKE A MAN - STRAP ON PUNISHMENT!

4.30PM UNTIL 5PM - PANTY SNIFFERS PUNISHMENT - WEARING PANTIES - BE PREPARED TO BE HUMILIATED BEYOND BELIEF!

To book your place for any of the above sessions you should visit the link below.

TRIBUTE BY AMAZON. CO.UK GIFT CARD ONLY - PAYPAL NOT ACCEPTED!

http://www.thecristaldomme.co.uk/p/online-sessions-prices.html

SUNDAY 6 JULY - SUNDAY CONFESSIONAL!

Every Sunday is Sunday Confessional.

This means that you are to report to Me to confess your sins of the week. You will report all instances of bad behaviour in GREAT DETAIL before begging for punishment. I will be asking you very humiliating questions about your behaviour, while I enjoy watching you squirm in shame. Once I feel you have squirmed enough for My amusement, the punishment will begin..

I firmly believe that the punishment should fit the crime. So, if you have been playing with your little worm without permission, then expect to have it punished very painfully. If you have been sticking your dick where you shouldn't, expect to have My huge strap on dick shoved up your ass for you to wriggle on it.
And if you have been paying for the company of escorts, then you'll be paying ME for My attention.

Whatever your sin, you will be truly punished for it. Punishments range from cock and ball torture, humiliation, spanking, financial abuse, anal abuse, or even ruined orgasms. But you WILL be punished.

Sunday Confessional bookings are carried out via Skype and Yahoo as well as via AdultWork Direct Cam.

Skype and Yahoo sessions are priced at 1.30 per minute and this includes two way cam and audio. Tribute for these bookings are to be made via Amazon UK E Gift Card ONLY.

To book your place for Sunday Confessional, you should click the link below and fill out the form. Mistress will then contact you to ask for more information and to request tribute:

http://www.thecristaldomme.co.uk/p/online-sessions-prices.html

Why My Skype Isn't Free...

Many boys ask Me for My Skype ID, and My response to them is always the same - you must pay a small tribute in order to receive it.

There is a reason for this - and the genuine subs among you will respect this.

In the past, I have actually given My Skype ID for free. But I've found that boys will chat endlessly, without booking a session. In fact, when I've told them it's time for them to book, you don't see them for dust. I'm not about to have My time wasted like that.

So the reason why you have are expected to tribute for My Skype is to show good intention - that you are NOT going to waste My time and that you have a genuine desire to serve.

My time is valuable and you are expected to pay for it, if you wish to receive it. A genuine submissive would never have the audacity to request My attention if he had no intention of paying for it. That is the way it is done.

So by all means, if you want to chat to Me, and get to know Me then you are welcome to do so - but you should have the common courtesy of at least offering something for My time - it is after all good manners. If you aren't prepared to pay then you should stay away - to avoid wasting My time and yours.

I charge a small tribute of just 5 via Amazon.co.uk E Gift Card for the honour of receiving My Skype ID - and this is not open for negotiation. Quite frankly; if you aren't prepared to pay that small tribute - OUT OF RESPECT - then you have no business applying to serve Me.

mistresscristal@mail.com

Power doesn't bare all...

A genuine submissive knows and understands why Mistress doesn't get naked. He respects this and has a full understanding of what it means.

And yet for some "submissives" (I used the term very loosely here), the penny still hasn't dropped...

There are good reasons why Mistress doesn't bare Her flesh to Her subs; and it has nothing to do with being prude or feeling that I have a need to hide Myself away.

The fact is, Mistress is like the crown jewels; you can see them, but you can't touch them. And you can't get in close. The jewels are shielded by tough glass. You want it - but you can't have it.

The same goes for My body. While I wear revealing outfits, which give a sense of what is underneath; what you really want remains covered - and it always will. Mistress is above you; She is powerful, and She doesn't need to bare Her flesh to prove that power. Her power comes from the mind; the biggest erogenous zone in the human body.

From a submissive point of view; when we are naked, we are showing our vulnerabilities. Our bodies are on display - we have absolutely nothing to hide. Have you ever had a dream where you are naked in public? Remember the shame of that? That is what it is like for a submissive. Secondly, being naked when your Owner is fully clothed is very erotic to somebody with a submissive nature. It reinforces the power, and the status of the Owner. Mistress remains covered up, while Her slave is stripped of any "protection". It reinforces a slave's vulnerability, thus rendering him completely powerless and at the will of another. It heightens the sense that he has given up control to his Owner. When Mistress instructs you to peel away your clothes, this is actually a metaphor - She also wants you to peel away the layers that cover your soul. She is telling you to give yourself to Her completely, shielding nothing away from Her eyes.

In My time, I have seem a few "Dommes" getting naked and even playing with themselves for the entertainment of their Slaves. That again doesn't happen in My sessions. Why would I want to share My sexuality with somebody under My command? Why would I be naked and masturbating, thus bringing Myself down to the level of My slave? If both slave and Myself are naked and mutually masturbating, then we are equal. But in a Domme/sub relationship, there is no equality - one is the Controller whilst the other is controlled.

During My Ass Worship sessions, I still remain clothed. Yes, if I feel the slave is worthy; I will strip down to My thong - but that is it. What slave really wants remains covered by a tiny piece of material. I know exactly what he wants - he wants to see what he truly wishes to worship. But by denying him of that, I am adding to the excitement. He has to IMAGINE what it would be like to see it - using his mind to add to his excitement. He knows that Mistress teasing him but denying him at the same time. I can make him beg for it - but I will never give in. This always leaves slave wanting more.

To Me; dominating My slaves is not about sexual gratification - and I hate to burst the bubble for the un-enlightened subs out there, but sex as far as I'm concerned, doesn't come into it. Yes, I may get excited when watching a slave ride a dildo for Me. But to Me, as far as slave is concerned; it is a psychological power-trip. Slave is doing as he's told. I'm demonstrating My power and control over him. He knows he has to do whatever I tell him, and he does it. It's that I enjoy most of all - the fact that I am in full control of another.

I have boys who say they want to fuck Me. A true submissive knows first an foremost NEVER to say such a ridiculous thing. Why would Mistress fuck somebody who is not Her equal? Why would Mistress give Herself to Her slave, and satisfy his own selfish needs? Remember; serving a Dominatrix is not about you. It is about the Dominatrix. If you're not worthy of being Mistress' equal - you can bet your life you'll NEVER be worthy of sharing something so intimate as having sex with Her.

The Domme/sub relationship is always very complex. Two people entering into an agreement; both having different agendas. Mistress has Her agenda - to make you submit and obey. Slave has his agenda - to receive the sexual gratification he craves. But very quickly that agenda is forgotten, and he serves to the agenda of his Mistress. Only when he has thoroughly pleased Mistress will his agenda be remembered....

WEBCAM SLAVES REQUIRED!

I have many vacancies for slaves who wish to serve Me via webcam on a long-term basis. You may serve either via Skype or Yahoo, exploring your fetishes with Me.

You MUST be aged 21 or over and NOT OWNED OR UNDER CONSIDERATION.

You will be expected to commit to regular webcam sessions with Me, minimum of 10 minutes.

To apply, you may visit the link below and fill out the simple form.

http://www.thecristaldomme.co.uk/p/apply-to-serve.html
*All slaves who serve via webcam, will be asked to make small tribute of 5 for LIFE-TIME ACCESS to My Skype or Yahoo ID. This is to deter any time-wasters and show you have a genuine desire to serve.

EMAIL SLAVES REQUIRED!

I currently have 3 vacancies for slaves who wish to serve Me via weekly Email Assignments.

You will be expected to carry out a set of weekly tasks, providing photographic evidence and diary on completion. Subject to your agreement, these photographs may be published on My website.

Tasks are written for you, on the basis of your fetishes and limits. You will have to keep to a strict deadline or fines will be imposed.

To apply, you may fill out the simple form via the link below:

http://www.thecristaldomme.co.uk/p/apply-to-serve....

YOU MUST BE AGED 21 OR OVER AND NOT OWNED OR UNDER CONSIDERATION!

For more information about Email Training you may visit the link below:

http://www.thecristaldomme.co.uk/p/email-assignmen...

Mistress Seeks A New Twitter Bitch!

Twitter Bitch has been dismissed from his post with immediate effect. Why? Because not only did he write self-serving tweets BEGGING for comments on My recent post about him, but when I gave him punishment he argued about it.

This is NOT the way to behave when you're under My jurisdiction. Yes I am unpredictable - this is what My slaves enjoy about Me. I make the rules and you follow them -WITHOUT ANY ARGUMENT.

You have no rights with Me. Your opinion doesn't even come into the equation. Whining about it "not being fair" doesn't impress Me. Since when is serving a strict Domme like Me about being fair? If you don't like it, don't serve - it's as simple as that.

And when I am giving you a lot of FREE attention; to argue and do things with your own selfish needs in mind shows Me that you are not the right slave for Me. When I take you on, whether it be for servitude in the usual way or servitude by promoting Me, you should see this as an honour, particularly in the case of the latter. I don't HAVE to take you on. You don't have Me over a barrel, and threats to "resign as My bitch" will only result in Me dismissing you and blocking you immediately. I will NOT be emotionally blackmailed. Serving Me is about ME, NOT you!

Now with this being said, I do have a position available for a new twitter bitch who has his priorities in the right order; Me, My promotion, My website, My AdultWork page, My NiteFlirt page, My Wishlist - and him, well he doesn't enter into it.

If you please Me, if you go above and beyond in an unselfish manner, you will receive a certain amount of My attention. If you try and turn it around so it's about you, then expect to be dismissed like the last one has. Make no mistake; I don't suffer fools lightly and I've been around long enough to know a fool when I see one.

So if you think you can work to My rules and not yours, then you may get in touch via the email address below. You should make your email like a proposal of what you can do for Me in terms of promotion and marketing. In short, you should tell Me why I should consider you for this very honoured position. Any emails which are about your needs and not Mine WILL be ignored, as will you.

mistresscristal@mail.com

MASTURBATION MONDAY - GUIDED MASTURBATION VIA SKYPE!

It's Masturbation Monday!

That means I will be taking Skype and Yahoo bookings for boys who wish to explore some very intense Guided Masturbation with Me.

If you are new to this service, you will start off with Guided Masturbation Level 1, which will see new techniques of self-pleasure. You will need lube (if possible), but nothing else.

Guided Masturbation Level 2 introduces even more techniques with the external prostate massage. You will learn to find and stimulate the male g-spot, under My instruction, which will lead to a mind-blowing orgasm - I guarantee you will be addicted! Lube is definitely required.

And finally Guided Masturbation Level 3 will see you introducing various toys to your self-pleasure. This will include internal prostate massage via the anus, and if you have one, a vibrating toy such as a butt-plug, prostate massager or even a vibrator. You can even use a vibrating egg or bullet on your balls or male g-spot. Lube is mandatory.

To book your place for Masturbation Monday, you should email Me via the link below. Prices are as follows:

Guided Masturbation Level 1 (duration 10 minutes) - 13.00.

Guided Masturbation Level 2 (duration 15 minutes) - 20.00

Guided Masturbation Level 3 (during 30 minutes) - 40.00

Payment for these sessions is to be made via Amazon UK Gift Card ONLY. These prices include cam to cam and audio and tribute must be made in advance.

mistresscristal@mail.com

www.thecristaldomme.co.uk

When Phone Sex Becomes Phone Counselling.

Not every caller who calls Me wants to talk about sex or fetish. While it's true that 90% are randy and want to get off, there are the 10% who just want somebody to talk to. They're lonely, they're feeling depressed and they want a neutral ear to listen and to sound off to. That was the case last night with a lovely caller who spent an hour with Me.

It was his first time. He admitted he'd never called a phone sex line before, and was rather nervous to say the least. He wanted to know why I did the job. He was actually quite interested in what I gained from it, at first assuming it was because of the money. I think I surprised him when I told him I do it because I actually enjoy it. Yes; money is a perk, but the fact is I do enjoy talking to men - about sex and other things. It's an interesting job and you get to speak to lots of interesting people.

He was very unsure though. He kept asking several times during the call; "Are you just telling me this because you want the money?", so I kept reassuring him. "Look, while I enjoy getting paid for what I do, I also enjoy doing what I do. If I didn't enjoy it, I wouldn't have done it for 12 years." This seemed to help, but nevertheless, he was still unsure.

I told him a little about Myself, and before long, he began to relax, so much so that he admitted he was calling because 2 days earlier, his marriage had ended. So there he was, on his own, no wife, separated from their children, talking to me, and actually my heart did go out to him. See, I'm not a cold-hearted bitch all the time. This guy needed to talk, and I was prepared to listen.

He talked about how his wife just wasn't interested in him. "I haven't had sex in about 7 months," he said sadly. "She's not interested. I've tried. I've bought toys to spice things up - she just used the toys and ignored me. Tonight, she's out seeing male strippers." Some women can be total bitches can't they? I mean, not many men would do that - would work hard to make things work - but she clearly didn't try.

"I know you probably get told this all the time;" he said quietly, "but one of the reasons my marriage failed is the size of my cock. It hurts my wife, because it's too big. That's why she isn't interested. Many guys brag that they have big cocks, but I do, and I hate it. It's not good." Now this is genuine. This is not some guy saying "I've got a massive cock - now worship it." This is a man speaking the truth - he can't have sex with his wife, because she finds it too painful. "But there are ways to get around that," I told him. "Have you sought professional help?"

"She's not interested," he replied sadly. "More interested in the toys I've spent a fortune on." How sad.

As he opened up more, he was asking if it was okay to talk to me about this. "I don't want to take up your time," he said. "You can speak to somebody else if you want."
"Don't be silly," I replied. "I'm happy to talk to you for as long as you like. It sounds like you need to talk to somebody, so talk."

So we talked. He lit a cigarette and so did I, and he poured his heart out, about how he feels like a failure. "You're not a failure!" I scolded him. "You just weren't with the right person. The right person will come along eventually."

Poor guy was so dejected. Clearly the estranged wife has made sure she's given his ego a good battering, and as he said, there's children involved, so it makes it even worse.

When the call finally finished, he thanked Me for chatting to him. "I think you're right," he finally admitted. "This isn't always fake is it? You're a very good listener."

I felt really good about that, and I told him I hoped that by listening and letting him talk, I'd helped him to see things a bit clearer. He seemed happier and more positive in the end; taking My advice to go away for a few days and get his head together. "You're too close to it right now," I told him. "It's early days and it's still raw. Go somewhere for a few days, and come back with a different perspective on things. It will become clear."

I really do hope things work out for him and eventually he can find a woman who doesn't treat him like crap. Not My place to say, but I think the wife dumping him has done him a favour. I mean; who wants to spend the rest of their life with somebody that selfish? Poor guy. Let's hope he finds himself a nice girl soon, who will treat him nice and with respect.

Abusive Caller Gets Barred.

So last night I took a call from an abusive caller. Now don't get Me wrong - the vast majority of men I speak to are lovely and a pleasure to converse with. In fact, I enjoy 99% ofMy calls because they are respectful, well mannered and speak to Me as they should.

But of course there is always an exception to the rule - and the prick I spoke to last night was that exception.

I could tell it wasn't going to go well the moment I introduced Myself and received the reply; "so what's your REAL name?" Yes, like I'm going to tell you that! Get real boy - it's a FANTASY service, not a come-over-here-and-stalk-Me service! So I explained that as far as he was concerned, that was My real name.

"What kind of fucking name is that?" came his tosserific reply. BIG MISTAKE!
"Mine," I simply replied, not giving him an inch. "I like it. I think it suits Me perfectly because I am like Cristal - the champagne that is - reassuringly expensive!"

"Well I think you're just a bullshitter," he sneered back.
"Oh do you?" I replied. "Let's see how much of a bullshitter I am when I hang up on your ass!"

And that's exactly what I did - before promptly barring him from My lines. Good luck trying to call Me again, you miserable sack of shit!

Human Ashtray Falls In Love.

I had a new slave call Me last night, who was very much into public domination and humiliation. He started off by explaining how is ex-girlfriend use to tie him spread-eagled in the garden, for all to see his vulnerability and his tiny tickle-tackle!

She would either use his mouth of her own pleasure, or slap him across the face. Sometimes while they were out in public, she would slap him across the face for no reason, before telling him that his hardening pathetic little willy sickened her. I like her style.

I told him that I would do much better than that. I would make it clear to the public that I was definitely the one in control, as I led him around via leash. If I wanted to sit down and take a rest, he would immediately drop to his knees and worship My heels like an obedient puppy. If he failed to worship to My satisfaction, I too would be slapping him across the face to further humiliate him.

But the ultimate tease came when I decided to light up a cigarette. (I don't smoke indoors, so therefore don't smoke on cam. But I do smoke during phone chats.) I told him that he would make the perfect human ashtray. As he worshipped My heels, I would be puffing away on My cigarette, holding it between My long, red manicured fingers, taking the stub of the cigarette between My full red lips, and taking a nice long drag. Then, I would pull his face up by his hair, order him to open his mouth, and blow the smoke straight into his mouth, while he shivered with excitement.

Amid the moans and groans coming from slave, I told him that the ash from My cigarette would also be flicked on his tongue for him to eat and swallow. And once My cigarette was finished, I would pinch his jaw until he had no choice but to open wide, take the tip of his tongue between My thumb and fingernail and pull it forcefully between his lips. Then, the finished but still lit cigarette stub would be placed on his tongue, before I clamped and held his jaw shut for him to swallow.

This description resulted in the most powerful orgasm he has ever experienced, and he proved this by repeatedly crying out "oh I think I love you Mistress!" Yes, they all do - but they can NEVER have Me!

Mr Top From Bottom - Round 2!

So last night, Mr Top From Bottom called again. Yes, he's clearly a glutton for punishment!

"Back for more are you?" I asked as soon as I recognised his voice. Of course he conveniently forgot that we had spoken the previous night - yeah right! After I told him I KNEW he wasn't submissive, he started off with the same old crap as he did the night before, and I let him as I chuckled in amusement at his attempts to try and fail to over-power Me. Silly boy! He really doesn't know who's he's dealing with, does he?

Then he started talking about his oh so big cock again. "It's very stiff and long," he said rather proudly. "Of course it is," I responded. "Who are you trying to convince? Me or yourself?"
"I think you'll like it when the head throbs," he continued.
"Only if I make it throb with My whip," I retorted.
"It would be great to fuck you with," came the reply.
"Do I sound like the kind of Dominatrix who fucks slaves?" I asked. No answer. "Well do I?" I demanded again. "Well I just figured it would be nice to fuck you," came the now very meek reply. "The only way I'll be fucking you is in your dreams," I taunted. "That's about the best you can hope for. My body is for real men - not for pathetic ticks like you!"

He rapidly changed the subject - I was getting to him and once again, he was staring utter failure in the face. "How old are you?" he asked. "I've already told you," I replied in a rather bored voice. "I told you last night and I told you about 10 minutes ago, when you asked for the second time. Or is your memory as pathetic as your cock?" Cue the nervous stuttering from this minion.

"Where are you from?" was the next question. "None of your business," was My reply. "Next question?" Oh, he was trying so very hard to win Me over. Not gonna happen. Finally, he realised he was on to a loser or maybe that he really IS a loser. "You're very professional, aren't you?" he finally admitted. "Yes, that's what happens when you're a Professional Dominatrix, and have been for the past 12 years," I replied. "And that's why I know, as well you as know, that you aren't going to take charge. Not ever."

"Yes, I can see you're very good," he admitted. "Perhaps a bit too good for me."

"Funny that," I chuckled before he hung up; finally accepting defeat. Wonder if he'll be back again tonight? Oh I do hope so!

Top From Bottom? BRING IT ON BITCH!

So last night I had a call from a guy who was NOT at all submissive - despite the fact that he claimed to be. I could tell straight away from his whole attitude that there wasn't a submissive bone in his body. And as the call progressed, it quickly became apparent that he was definitely going to try to top from bottom. Now some Ladies would hang up at this- not Me. I see this as a game - a game of how long he'll last before he realises he will never get the better of Me.

So I took his money, while he tried and failed to win control of the situation. I even told him that I knew exactly what he was doing and I'd encountered and over-powered many like him before. "You may as well quit trying," I sighed to him. "Not a single fake-sub has ever gotten the better of Me and you're no different." He carried on talking about how he had a big stiff cock and he knew I'd like it. "The only way I'll like it is if I can torture it, while you scream for mercy," I said to him, quickly becoming rather bored of his pathetic attempts to take charge. "Oh I think you'll like to sit on this stiff cock," he said arrogantly. "No dear," I replied. "If it was a choice between sitting on searing hot coals and your so-called stiff cock, the hot coals would win easily." Next he went on to tell Me how attractive he claimed he was. "Yes, keep telling yourself that," I said, chuckling.

In the end I gave it to him straight. "In the 12 years I've been dominating men, I've found that a few, not many, but a few like to take control," I explained. "The thing is they NEVER manage to take control. Not once. I'm ALWAYS in control. And the fakes who have disappeared feeling really rather foolish are testament to that. So if you think I'm going to waiver, and allow you to take charge, you're very much mistaken!"

He hung up - yes, he'd met his match and more. I get the feeling he's tried this with several phone Dommes, and some have actually given in. Not Me, and the more I spurned his "advances" the more increasingly desperate he became, hence the "I think you'll like my stiff cock," line. How boring.

The thing is; I know "subs" trying to top from bottom is annoying. But for Me it's highly amusing. It's game - a power-struggle for them - while I let themselves dig a bigger hole. And for Me? Well I just sit back and enjoy the entertainment of hearing just how desperate for attention they truly are.

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